Moving Hell: An unmoving experience
drew.......
thanx for not giving away the BMEWS secret handshake and password!
and i thought i had a bad weekend! all things moving suck even if everything
goes smooth. your Dr. friend is a nutter in more ways then one! glad it worked
\out ok, just don’t let it upset your bowling or posting! ®Man, that was one fucked up series of events!! I think that doctor should be on your permanent shit-list for steering you so wrong.
Glad it all worked out in the end.
Posted by Vilmar
08/31/2009 at 04:24 PM
Dr. Stupid is guilty of breach of contract and fraud and you should hang him by the balls for it , and take his practice away.
I hope your wife is looking for a new job and I hope she finds one. ‘Cause this guy is a train wreck actively looking for a place to happen. When current wifey finds out what has been going on she’ll be in divorce court so fast it’ll make your head spin and he just might lose the business.
No man who consistantly thinks with his little head can be relied on by anyone, neither spouse, nor employees will be his first priority when a fresh new honey strolls in.
PS and I thought I had a rough weekend, y’all have my sympathy.
- I-76 leads to Pennsylvania.
- I-676 leads to Pennsylvania.
- I-95 leads to I-276 in Pennsylvania, and a different part of it leads directly into Pennsylvania.
- State Highway 1 leads to Pennsylvania.
- Washington Crossing Road leads to Pennsylvania.
- Bridge St. leads to Pennsylvania.But perhaps I’m being too subtle?
New Jersey is a Dark and Fascist State, and I would love to see you, Mrs. Drew, anyone else in your family, and the whole collection of possessions (and especially the firearms and ammo) gotten the hell out of where you are, and to a much better State across the river.
I just called GeekWithA.45 on the phone to tell him about your post, I hope he gets a chance to drop by and offer his own words of encouragement as he has already made the leap from the Dark and Fascist State to Pennsylvania, and is much happier in “Freedom House”.
Dude.
I’ve done a lot of interesting and amazing things in my life. Three of them stand out among them all each one an analloyed good thing that enhanced my life beyond the words to properly describe: I married gwa9, I adopted Alpha & Beta, and I got the hell out of the soul searing toxicity that is the Dark and Fascist State of New Jersey.
I admit that I know very little of your circumstances. I do not know how feasible or not such a maneuver would be for your family. I submit, for your consideration, these thoughts:
* It is at times such as these, when your life is in boxes, that such maneuvers can be seriously considered.
* I recognize Dr. Stupid...no, not individually, I have no idea who he is or his name, but I recognize him in the abstract. I once worked for a certain Mr. Darkstreak. The lesson I learned from Mr. Darkstreak was that it’s best never to let someone with unsupervised Darkness or Stupidity have a position of power or influence over life. It’s just not worth it.
* If you can at all make your escape work, you will not ever regret it, and all that crap will fade to a distant dream.
Wherever your future takes you, you have my best wishes for good fortune.
Posted by geekWithA.45
08/31/2009 at 10:14 PM
I am sorry Drew, but that made my day.
But seriously, I go with grayjohn’s and geekWithA.45’s suggestions.
Posted by Turtler
08/31/2009 at 11:15 PM
Drew,
Can’t believe I was able to hold my breath that long. Felt like it anyway.Interesting comments re. NJ. How do other states differ? I’d have no way of knowing anymore.
Geez, what a story.
I am SO sorry to hear this happened to you!
Let me tell you a little story about “Mr. Stupid"…
He was young, moonlighting as a bartender in a rough place. He ran outside after a panicked customer screamed for help, and found a man with a woman in a headlock. He warned the guy to “let her GO!!” then beat his @$$ - any good man knows you don’t treat women that way.
He then took her to the hospital - she thought her hand was broken - then home. He helped her change her locks, helped her get a TRO against the animal, helped her move out his meager belongings…
She had 2 kids, by a man who was apparently also a dirtbag. One thing led to another and… She’s pregnant. His daughter was born 10 months and 2 days from the night he met this poor, abused woman - but that’s not the interesting part… It was less than 3 months from the night he “rescued” her to the first time HE had her in a headlock himself - because it was the only way to stop her from attacking him.
She was intermittently, explosively violent. Always a “surprise” out of nowhere. She told him absolutely HORRIFIC stories of the abuse she’d suffered at the hand of her other kids’ father - no wonder she’s crazy. That man deserved to die - and CERTAINLY could be allowed no access to his kids, who were also somewhat disturbed as a result of his horrible behavior…
Our hero tried for 5.5 years to make it work, but after 66 stitches and numerous other injuries at the hand of this woman, he finally got out with his kids. He tried to help her get her life together, she cooperated with “sharing” the kids - he thought it was going well until she grabbed the kids and disappeared…
Suddenly HE is the one being served with the restraining order - though he was never violent to her, even in self-defense. He had to sit in the courtroom and watch her tell the same stories - word for word - about HIM that she’d previously told HIM about the other “ex.”
She moved a couple of times per year - always into a new place, with a new man. Every one of them threatened “our hero” just as he’d once threatened the other guy. Every time she’d eventually move out, stealing antique furniture, new appliances… Every one of these men ended up holding the bag for several thousand in unpaid bills - all because he’d tried to help this “poor, abused woman.” She even - at one point - evicted a man AND HIS THREE CHILDREN from their own home with more false charges of “abuse.” He couldn’t pay the mortgage on his home and rent on another home for HIS kids, so he ended up losing his home to foreclosure and bankruptcy. She sold all of his belongings that she didn’t want to keep for herself…
Meanwhile, she even convinced pastors of churches to testify on her behalf in their custody-battle, then 2 weeks later stole the offering from the church office. When the pastor contacted her, she threatened to accuse him of attempted-rape if he pressed any charges for the theft… Though the pastor apologized to Dad, he was too terrified to tell the court of his experience…
She’s still out there, still playing a new group or church-full of people every few months. She’s had the same man for a few years, observers believe she’s finally found someone who really DOES abuse her, so she has finally found what she craves, though there is no doubt that he too will eventually end up on the street, bled dry of all that could benefit her.
Honestly, when I read your story I thought “Oh, G*D! She’s at it AGAIN!!” - except she’s not in NJ… It’s her evil twin though, no question…
Thankfully, Our Hero convinced The Court to give him sole custody of their kids ~12 years ago, so at least they have been mostly protected from her sickness…
I thank G*d daily that my kids are safe…
My point? Don’t be too hard on Dr. Stupid - he could be a good (though very misguided) man at heart, and these toxic vampire-women are a dime a dozen… Yes, he’s stupid - but he’s apparently not EVIL…
DD
Posted by Dedicated_dad
09/01/2009 at 10:58 AM
Wow Drew - I can’t believe the turn of events. I am glad that for now - you have a roof over your head, you are not sitting in jail for any number of possibilities and that your wife still has a job.
I kind of agree - getting the hell out of Dodge does seem to be the one sane thing to do - as you do not know what kind of crap is coming down the pike (re: Owner vs Dr. Stupid) and in the end your wife might indeed end up without a job anyway.
DD - I completely understand your story - but alas my daughter (and possibly to a degree my fault for my trip into stupidity with her father) - is going through it with a male version of drama, lies and screw you over and over again. I am praying she gets the job she just interviewed for as it will provide the security (and re-assurance that she isn’t the idiot, she currently thinks she is) and might give her both the financial and emotional strength not to buckle in to this moron a third time.
While I think many women are indeed deceptive and manipulative - the male gender has it’s vampire-men too.
08/31/2009 at 08:47 PM
09/01/2009 at 04:02 AM
